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Short Reminder - Modesty in Islam

Dear youth. Brothers and sisters. Modesty is a part of Iman. Our religion teaches us to respect and honour our sisters. Those brothers out there who are involved in ringing, texting, chatting, flirting, Haram relationships with girls, just stop and think. You are playing with someone's daughter. Someone's sister. Someone's honour. Sisters as well, Allah عزوجل has honoured you and made you better. Don't involve yourselves in Haram.

If you are really serious about somene then inform your parents. Involve your families. Get married the Halal way and save your Iman, honour and yourselves from ending up in a worse situation.

Allah عزوجل has mentioned in the Holy Qur'an, "Do not go near adultery." [17:32]

We must take heed and rectify ourselves. Parents need to teach their children about these matters and guide them the right way. If we are busy with making money and other matters then we cannot expect our youth to know any better. The best role model for a child are the parents.

For those youth out there who have no sincere intentions of marriage and like to play around in Haram relationships, chatting and flirting with Ghayr Mahram members of the opposite gender, you must fear Allah عزوجل. You telling people that, "She is like your sister" doesn't make sense when you are freely mixing and flirting with sisters. Unfortunately for some, until they end up beaten up, even killed or ultimately punished by Allah عزوجل, they do not learn the importance of modesty, shame and honour in our religion.

The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم stated, "Indeed among the words people obtained from the Prophets عليهم الصلاة والسلام are these, 'If you feel no shame then do as you wish.'" [Sahih Bukhari]

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